Love Actuality

Ah, and so I’m single again, those promises of a happy ending kinda faded away and didn’t quite make it to fruition. And no, I’m not bitter, when these end I’m sometimes angry, sometimes saddened but always disappointed. No relationship is ever perfect but, I have this innate ability to fool myself into thinking so, [...]

Family Tied?

So we all date and we all move in with our significant others at some time or other but, while all that is going on do we even pause to think how great an influence our friends and family have on us and on our other halfs? Maybe you think it doesn’t factor into your [...]

Axing The Ex

And so, it’s been a long journey up until where I sit tonight, with a signed offer to purchase my own home tightly grasped in my hand(well, it was always my home except up until tonight it was OUR home). Yes, relationships come and go; some last and some don’t, some last years and some [...]

In Les We Trust?

In Les We Trust? So, I’ve recently come out of what I thought at the time was a good long term relationship but, it turned out that it was in actual fact a grossly dysfunctional one where I became the sort of person I never want to be again. I became one of those girlfriends [...]

Dating in the shallow end of the pool…

Dating in the shallow end of the pool… Lol, ok, so apparently I’ve recently joined the ranks of being a cradle-snatcher, a womb raper, dating in the shallow end of the pool and the list goes on… Seriously though, it was by and large unintentional, I usually avoid younger girls like the plague, my past [...]

I’m just staying for one more drink

Well, it’s number one on my list anyway, you may beg to differ. The innate inability of partners to come home when they’re expected home. Seriously, we’ve all been there, even my straight friends , I’m just staying for one more drink, I’m on my way home, I’m just finishing my drink, which is followed [...]

Yes! My dildo is my friend!

Yes, My Dildo is My Friend Yes, so I did let it slip on a previous occasion that I work in the Adult entertainment industry, and no, I’m not a pornstar (just in case the thought crossed your mind), nor am I a stripper, but it never ceases to be a hot topic when I [...]

Lesbian labelling a la carte

To label or not to label? Early this morning, doing my usual exercise regimen, pedaling away and using my 3g on my phone as my only form of escapism, I found myself enveloped in a heated online discussion at my usual chat site…the allure of the label. As if it isn’t enough of an issue [...]